Hump Day Love: Dance 10 Performing Arts Center

I’m shooting this week’s “Hump Day Love” to the one and only Dance 10 Performing Arts Center.  Let me start by saying this post (long but I did my best) comes from all sorts of angles; as a former student, as a former teacher (not only there but at other dance studios) and as a lover of the arts.

I found Dance 10 during my Freshman year of high school when I had begun to realize that dance was going to be more for me than a hobby and actually be the thing that carried me into college.  I needed a place that would give me more technique, more challenges in terms of choreography and let me have some fun.  I had found a place (a high school) that gave me all of that in the classical forms but I was craving more and had realized that the studio I had been at wasn’t able to give it to me.   I came to Dance 10 after some recommendations and I never left.  It challenged me technically in terms of styles that aren’t considered “classical” and challenged me choreographically but the best part was that I smiled and laughed more there than I had ever done with not only the teachers but my peers.  It was a “safe haven” for me and in my teenage years, I’m forever grateful for that.

That technique and choreography came from some of the best teachers around.  Artist instructors are brought in from surrounding cities (NYC in particular) to provide workshops.  Guest choreographers (who many times happen to be former students who have gone on to conquer the world)  are brought in to provide new perspectives and push students out of the box.  And the teachers there day-in and day-out with the students pour their hearts and souls into the students.  Keep in mind I was very conscious about saying students and not dances.  Yes, they put hours into creating those dances but they create dances with their students in mind.  They find moments for every student to shine and ensure that the dances they create showcase the technique the students have been taught throughout the years.  When students are cast in certain pieces for competition numbers or the Holiday special, it is not without thought or many hours of deliberation.  It is well-thought out to give every student the right balance of moments to shine while also challenging them.

Many of the studio’s teachers were once the studio’s students.  They went on to receive further education in dance and have come “home” to take that education and pass it on to the next generation. As their peer students in the 90’s (yikes!) I’ve had so much fun learning dance with them. As their peer teachers I’ve learned so much from them.  I’ve seen Misty run from one end of the studio to the other just to give a simple correction but she wants to make sure that correction isn’t missed because for that one student it isn’t a simple correction, but could be the difference for making a technical element work just right.  I’ve seen Lisa challenge herself in terms of how much she pulls her time thin to balance her full-time job, teaching and extra rehearsals but she does it with grace because the education she’s giving those kids means everything to her.  I’ve seen Kayla have such patience with students that are truly struggling and help them get past the struggle and have fun.  I’ve seen Jess be the one person one of the tiny two year olds need to turn their first stage performance from a crying mess into a smiling masterpiece.  When I recommend Dance 10, I’m not just doing it because I went there or taught there, I’m doing it because I’ve lived it and experienced it in every way possible.

Teacher pix! My final year as a teacher while pregnant with my 2nd and yes, I refused to wear a crop top while dancing on stage and pregnant.  Miss you all!


As a teacher, it’s to be appreciated when you can come in and truly just worry about the lessons you have to teach.  I’ve worked at other studios where I have to do so much of the administration that I don’t get time to teach.  The value placed on the talents teachers have to offer is high here.  That’s why the staff behind the scenes is there and without their fabulous dedication to the job, the studio wouldn’t have grown from the 1 room rental in the American Legion when it was Dance 10 Studios to the entire building that is now Dance 10 Performing Arts Center (and yes, more than dance is offered there.)

But perhaps the greatest asset of this whole studio is the woman at its helm, Mary Ellen Reilly.  It is her vision, her leadership, her talents, and her love that has turned this “dance studio” into “home” for generations of students.  Her goal has always been to make sure that whatever path your child decides to take with dance…recreational, semi-professional, professional….that they have been taught a true dance education so that your money was not wasted, but also that it was done with love and respect for both the dancers and their family.

17 years ago I walked into Dance 10 and as I’ve grown up it’s been one of the few things I can always rely on.

This marks the studio’s 30th anniversary (I’m literally already stressed about the alumni dance) so it’ll be big and fabulous! Find out more via their website here.

I hope to see you at the recital!




Tip Tuesday: Watch Your Debt…Even After You’ve Had An Accepted Offer

You’ve gotten pre-approved for a mortgage!  Great!

You’ve gotten an accepted offer! Great!

You’re only days away from closing!  Even Better!

But….your debt is still being watched.  You’re not in the clear until you walk away from the closing table with the keys in your hand.  Therefore, be cautious when spending money while leading up to the closing of your home.  While some of these “commandments” below are pretty obvious, others do provide some trouble for people.  In particular, the furniture one and the one regarding making large deposits.  Keep your debt and bank account under control in the time leading up to your closing day…it could be the reason that you lose out on your home at the very last minute.


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Tip Tuesday: Don’t Make These Mistakes As a Seller!!!

Biggest Home Seller Mistakes
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Putting your home on the market means that you want to sell it.  As a seller, you have a bottom line and our job, as your agent, is to protect that bottom line. Needless to say, know that going into the process you will need be aware of certain factors that make your home un-sellable and to do your best to avoid those factors.

  1. Overpriced Home: Let’s face it, you love your home.  Of course you do or you wouldn’t have transformed it from a house to a home.  Whether it’s the home you’ve lived your single life in, home you got married and brought your babies home in, the home you grew up in or a simple transition home; you at one time fell in love with this home so much that you made the largest financial decision of your life.  Well, someone else will fall in love with your home but won’t have the emotional connection to it yet so while you think it’s worth a certain value, that value may not be market value.  While some neighborhoods are carrying low inventory so they’re attracting multiple buyers; for the most part, it’s a buyers market.  Pricing your home appropriately for the market will help it to sell quick and you could be one of the lucky ones with multiple offers and a bidding war on your home.  However, if your bottom line is well above market value then right now may not be the time to sell because the longer you keep your home on the market at an unreasonable price, the less attractive it becomes to buyers and the less likely it will ever sell.
  2. Showing Availability: You wouldn’t buy the outfit before you saw it, right?  So why would anyone buy your home without being able to see it?  Buyers schedules are all over the place…day, night, weekends, weekdays.  Everyone has a different life with a different schedule so the key is to make your home as available as possible to get as many people in the door as possible.
  3. Cluttered Space: Make your home see spacious!  Clear up the mess and make your home feel airy, open and like someone can’t wait to live there….not cluttered and closed off.  This includes your closets!  Take a look at last week’s Tip Tuesday on linen closet organization here.
  4. Unwilling to negotiate:  Again, the longer your home sits on the market, the less attractive it becomes to buyers so you want to get it sold fast.  This means that you have to be willing to negotiate price and terms.  Of course, we will protect and not compromise your bottom line but each side (buyer and seller) must be willing to give a little.  This could include anything (not just price) from the size of the initial deposit date, the contingency to have to buy/sell another home first, etc.
  5. Unpleasant Odors: This is perhaps the quickest way to have buyers enter and exit your property before even seeing your home.  They get scared that they won’t be able to get the odors out.  Keep your home tidy.  Don’t cook anything too strong before a showing, don’t smoke in the home and clean those kitty litter boxes!
  6. Won’t Make Repairs: We’re not going to ask you to redo everything in your home but understanding that if there are safety issues or major concerns to the structure and function of the home, no buyer will be interested and thus, you need to fix them to get it sold.

Your home will sell.  Be sure to have a game plan.  A clear bottom line from the beginning and great agents (hint, hint)!  Good luck!

Hump Day Love: Flower Girl Weddings

Kelly’s pure talent, eye for floral beauty, customer service skills and professionalism are the exact reasons you hire her for your wedding. Based out of Southington, Flower Girl Weddings takes your vision and colors and brings them to life in nothing less than utter perfection, all within your budget!  Kelly was fantastic at taking my budget and turning it into a bridal masterpiece.  She advised me on where I could cut down price and when things would and wouldn’t look good.  She took pictures I had and transferred what I loved about those pictures into my wedding.  Don’t know what you want?  No problem.  She will take individualized, personalized time to sit with you and discuss your wedding.  Her goal is to ensure that you have all of the information you need and she has all of the information she needs from you to make your dream wedding a reality.  She was very prompt on the day of the wedding and there wasn’t a single thing wrong.  I have and will continue to recommend Flower Girl Weddings to anyone.

My Bouquet…Loved the Rhinestone Roses
Kelly did a great job of matching the flower girls’ bouquets to mine while keeping them subtle
I loved the way the dark rose looked against Jason’s suit
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The Church Altar Centerpiece

Tip Tuesday: Organizing Your Linen Closet

I don’t know about you but our linen closet is a place where everything just gets thrown.  I’ve particularly noticed it lately because we’re potty training our 2 year old and in the middle of the night when he’s wet his bed, I’m quickly looking for the right sheet.  Also, I’ve been digging through all the towels to find the beach towels I put away last year.  It’s never fun!  Plus, when we’re showing houses our buyers look in closets and many times the linen closet seems small when it’s really not, just poorly used.  So, whether you’re looking to simply get more organized, are sick of looking at the mess or thinking of selling and what to show the abundance of storage space you have; we have the linen closet organization solutions for you!

  • Fold your sheets and put them in one of the matching pillow cases.  It makes the shelf look neat and tidy plus makes all of the pieces of the bedding easily accessible.

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  • Go to the dollar store and get simple, cheap bins.  Organize everything appropriately and then label the outside with these labels.  It not only clears the mess, but makes finding things easy-breezy.


  • Utilize the back of the door.  Small or large, buy a rack for the back of the closet door and use it to store odds and ends like lightbulbs or bulkier items like shampoo and soap.
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You’re just 3 affordable, easy steps way from an organized linen closet!  Good luck

Tip Tuesday: Siding Choices

sidingThinking about giving your home a facelift this summer by doing new siding?  Will you be using the same type of siding material that’s already there or are you thinking about doing something different?  Well, we’re here to help you weigh out the pros and cons of the 5 most commonly seen types of siding in central CT!


  • Most popular
  • Very durable and very low maintenance
  • Available in a variety of colors but you can’t paint it so be sure that the color you pick is what you want
  • Will not rot or attract insects
  • Seams where the pieces overlap are visible
  • Difficult to “patch up” should one section need repairs



  • Can last decades, most durable
  • No ongoing maintenance
  • Fireproof
  • Will not rot or attract insects
  • Costly and needs to be professionally installed
  • Foundation needs to be able to support the weight of the brick



  • A more natural look
  • Can be painted/stained so you can change colors further down the line
  • Eco-friendly
  • Requires a lot of maintenance
  • Tends to attract rot, insects and decay



  • Durable
  • Low maintenance
  • Fireproof
  • Seamless
  • Difficult to paint and colors can fade
  • Can rust and dent



  • Durable and long-lasting
  • Very little maintenance
  • Fireproof
  • Doesn’t attract insects
  • Cracking is possible
  • Requires professional installation


Looking to find out what new siding will add to the value of your home?  Contact us today!  860-209-7218 or





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